3 Critical Steps to Rebuilding
the Love Right Now

If your spouse says they no longer love you, and
  you feel more like enemies than friends, what
  chance is there for turning the relationship
  around and restoring the love? (The love may NOT
  really be dead... more on how that's possible in a
  second.)

  What if your spouse walked away?

  Can you persuade them to return, even after you
  poured your heart into it? The answer is yes
  (but the techniques, even though extremely
  effective and powerful, are not as conventional
  as you might think.  In fact, you may be a
  little apprehensive about trying them.) 

  But what do you really have to lose?

  If you are brave enough to implement the "last-
  chance" efforts I am about to reveal from my
  friend and colleague Frank Gunzburg, PhD, it is
  possible, even though not guaranteed, that you
  can enhance your success by tapping into
  marriage-saving methods that may be completely
  new and more effective than anything you've
  previously tried.

  This is important... let me explain.

  Dr. Frank Gunzburg just released new strategies
  designed specifically for crisis couples who
  feel vulnerable, helpless and desperate to save
  their marriages.  (Even couples where only ONE
  spouse wants to save the marriage.)

  These are seemingly hopeless marriages where one
  spouse either walked away, or recently revealed
  they no longer loved the other.

  If I am describing your marriage, then please
  read on because you are NOT at all alone.
  Here's why.

  I've known about Dr. Gunzburg's remarkable
  success for almost 3 years, and one thing his
  organization does well is research.  Recently
  they performed a survey on a total of 1285
  troubled marriages, and the findings were heart-
  breaking.

  To give you a picture of the group, 93% are
  still married, the average age is between 35-55,
  and 75% of the couples have been married longer
  than 11 years.

  The unfortunate discovery was that only 5% of
  the couples rated their marriage as happy.

  * 49% rated their marriage as unhappy
    - but unwilling to divorce...
  * 31% rated their marriage as critical
    - they are currently separated...
  * 15% rated their marriage as desperate
    - the divorce papers are filed…

  Over 41% of the Couples are Separated

  Even though 30% of the audience stated that both
  individuals in the marriage are equally
  committed to saving the marriage, a
  disappointing 60% said their spouse cares little
  for the relationship, while they are desperate
  to save it.

  Is the love really gone when one spouse wants
  out?

  Here's where Dr. Gunzburg's findings become
  intriguing...

  According to Dr. Gunzburg, after working with
  couples in crisis for over 35 years, when your
  spouse says they no longer love you, that
  doesn't always mean the love is dead.  It may
  simply mean the love has been covered up by
  anger, frustration, resentment or other
  emotions.

  Typically, this occurs because of an affair or
  years of neglect.

  To justify these feelings, your spouse may even
  start rewriting history to match this feeling
  that the love has died.  He or she might say
  things like, "I never really loved you," "I
  married you out of a sense of obligation," or,
  "I was afraid you would fall apart if I left."

  As difficult as this situation may be, hope
  isn't lost because…

  If you were once in love, you CAN fall in love
  again.

  There are three specific steps you can take
  starting RIGHT NOW to revive the loving feelings
  that once flourished in your marriage.  These
  are not gimmicks, tricks or clever little
  psychological games.

  These strategies were born after 35 years of
  counseling crisis couples.  Couples who first
  came into Dr. Gunzburg's office acting more like
  enemies than friends were later transformed into
  lovers, best friends and soul mates.

  These couples didn't get their relationship back
  to where it was before the love evaporated.
  They learned how to make their relationship
  better than ever.

  If you know your marriage needs serious
  "medicine" to cure the ills you are faced with,
  please use this link to read about the 3 skills
  designed to rebuild the love.

  Use this link to turn your marriage around and
  rebuild the love.

  ==> http://www.marriagesherpa.com/afflink4c80ecd35d882/9c4f35b6.html

  After you use the link, scroll 1/3 of the way
  down to read through the 3 skills crisis couples
  need to follow.

  These skills are designed to be followed in
  sequence.

  In fact, throughout the program Dr. Gunzburg
  uses examples and stories of couples in crisis
  that will help you relate these principles to
  your day-to-day life.

  When you use this link, you'll read excerpts
  from these stories. 

  ==> http://www.marriagesherpa.com/afflink4c80ecd35d882/9c4f35b6.html

  For example:

  Martha and Todd Todd was blown away when Martha
  dropped the "D" word. He didn't even know what
  to say. He never dreamed things had gotten this
  bad between them. Unfortunately he hadn't heard
  Martha's repeated pleas for connection and
  communication. Now he faces losing his wife of
  28 years.

  Rachel and Clarence Rachel was sitting on the
  sofa. Her face was pale, and she was unable to
  speak. She felt like she was spinning. Part of
  her wanted to cry, but somehow she was too
  overwhelmed for the tears to come. She just sat
  listening to Clarence as she felt her world
  falling apart all around her. Clarence just
  confessed to his affair.  Discover the steps
  they took to save their marriage from divorce
  and restore the love, even after the affair.

  Use this link to Rebuild the Love

  ==> http://www.marriagesherpa.com/afflink4c80ecd35d882/9c4f35b6.html

  One other important note…

  After you read about his program, I strongly
  recommend you invest in it. In fact, the first
  100 people who order today will have access to a
  special bonus.

  ==> http://www.marriagesherpa.com/afflink4c80ecd35d882/9c4f35b6.html

  Use this link and scroll to the bottom and read
  about the special Rebuild the Love Training audio
  he's offering JUST for my readers. 

  The first 100 people who order his
  newly released program before tomorrow will get
  access to this training audio as a special
  bonus.

  Rebuild the Love

  ==> http://www.marriagesherpa.com/afflink4c80ecd35d882/9c4f35b6.html

  Remember, when your spouse says they no longer
  love you, that doesn't mean the love is dead.
  It may simply mean the love is covered over by
  their "anger and resentment."

  You have a chance to win your spouse back and
  begin again.  Use this link to learn how to do
  it.

  ==> http://www.marriagesherpa.com/afflink4c80ecd35d882/9c4f35b6.html

  Rebuild the Love

  Warm Regards,

  John Schurmann

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